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Sassy Mom Picks on Teen in Subway - His Mom Stands up for Him

Ayesha Muhammad
Apr 15, 2024
07:50 A.M.

Sabrina's mundane subway ride transforms into an unexpected arena of human drama when a mother publicly berates a seemingly healthy boy for occupying a reserved seat. But, there's definitely more at play than meets the eye.

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A yellow and black train passing through a tunnel | Source: Pexels

Subway Showdown: A Mother's Defense

On an unseasonably warm spring afternoon, I, Sabrina, was aboard the city subway, just going through the motions of my daily commute. The car was the perfect level of crowded — it was impossible to find a seat, but you could still stand without getting too cozy with strangers.

At the back of the car, there was this young kid, maybe around 11 or 12, totally lost in his phone. He was sitting in one of those seats meant for the elderly, those with disabilities, or visibly pregnant women.

A train crowded with passengers | Source: Pexels

A train crowded with passengers | Source: Pexels

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As the subway stopped and the doors opened, this woman rushed in, dragging a little kid who could barely keep up. She spotted the boy sitting down, and man, the look she gave him could have frozen lava. She just stood there for a second, like she was trying to will him out of the seat with her mind.

A young boy sitting in a train's window seat | Source: Unsplash

A young boy sitting in a train's window seat | Source: Unsplash

The kid, still glued to his screen, didn't even notice her staring. That seemed to tick her off even more. She marched right up to him and went off, "You, young man! Can't you see I have a child here? How dare you occupy a reserved seat when you're clearly fit and healthy? Am I right?" Her voice just kept getting louder.

A woman sitting in a train | Source: Unsplash

A woman sitting in a train | Source: Unsplash

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Everyone around started paying attention, and it kind of felt like they were on her side for a minute. But then, out of nowhere, this other woman steps in — it's the boy's mom. She had this calm, fierce vibe going on. "You'll regret this," she tells the first woman, and there was something about the way she said it that made you pause.

A woman and her son in a subway | Source: Flickr

A woman and her son in a subway | Source: Flickr

Soon afterward, the boy stops his game, puts down his phone, and then rolls up his jeans leg to show off a prosthetic limb. He takes it off and sets it right there in front of the shocked woman.

The whole subway car went dead quiet, you could hear a pin drop. The woman's face? It went from angry to oh-crap-real-quick. She backed off, mumbled something, and got off at the next station like she couldn't get out fast enough.

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A man with a prosthetic leg in white pants and black shoes | Source: Pexels

A man with a prosthetic leg in white pants and black shoes | Source: Pexels

After she left, everyone let out this collective sigh, and there was this unspoken support vibrating through the car. The mom just quietly helped her son with his prosthetic, like they'd been through this drill before.

Riding the rest of the way, I kept thinking about how quick we are to judge without knowing the whole story. It's crazy the kind of dramas that unfold in these public spaces.

A time-lapse photo of a person standing near a train | Source: Pexels

A time-lapse photo of a person standing near a train | Source: Pexels

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So, what do you think — did the boy's mom handle it the right way? What would you have done in her shoes? Stick around, there's another story lined up next that's just as wild!

Seating Strife: A Mom-to-Be's Silent Statement

Twenty-one years ago, during the exciting yet nerve-wracking time of my first pregnancy, I, Sarah, had an unforgettable encounter on a commuter bus. Back then, the only obvious sign of my pregnancy was the pronounced swell of my stomach, making it hard to tell I was pregnant when I was sitting down.

A woman looking out of a bus window | Source: Unsplash

A woman looking out of a bus window | Source: Unsplash

One day, I managed to grab a seat in the section reserved for the elderly or those with disabilities, which was usually up for grabs unless someone more in need came along. The bus was packed tight, personal space was a luxury long gone. I was just glad to have a spot.

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Passengers in a bus | Source: Pexels

Passengers in a bus | Source: Pexels

As we rumbled along, an older woman got on. She wasn't exactly frail — no cane or walker — and she found a spot next to me. But as soon as we started moving, she began kicking at my feet. At first, I shifted away, giving her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe it was a reflex?

An older woman traveling in a bus | Source: Unsplash

An older woman traveling in a bus | Source: Unsplash

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But after several more deliberate kicks, my patience ran thin. I asked her, a bit annoyed, "Ma'am, do you want my seat?" She just folded her arms and stared back defiantly. So, I stood up and as I did, I turned slightly to show her my pregnant belly — clear and unmistakable.

A pregnant woman traveling by bus | Source: Freepik

A pregnant woman traveling by bus | Source: Freepik

Her reaction was quick; her eyes darted to my belly then quickly away, her face set in a stubborn refusal to admit her mistake. So there we stood for the rest of the trip: me, standing and pregnant, her sitting in silence, looking everywhere but at me.

Our silent standoff played out under the watchful eyes of the other passengers. It was a quiet scene, yet it spoke volumes — the air thick with the weight of unspoken judgments and a sort of silent solidarity from those around us.

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People waiting for bus at a bus stop | Source: Unsplash

People waiting for bus at a bus stop | Source: Unsplash

When my stop came, I got off with nothing more than a polite nod to the woman, met with nothing but silence from her. That moment on the bus, although minor in the grand scheme, stuck with me as a stark reminder of how quick we are to judge based on what we see — or what we think we see.

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A pregnant woman circling her baby bump | Source: Pexels

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What do you think, did I handle that right? What would you have done? Hang tight, because there's another story coming up that you might find just as intriguing!

Misjudged Needs: A Confrontation over a Bus Seat

Just another day on the city bus turned into something more — a lesson in humility and awareness. I'm Marianne, and I had snagged one of those seats meant for people who can't really stand up for long — a major win considering my hip situation. With my cane tucked away, I stretched out my leg to keep it from locking up — yeah, it's as painful as it sounds.

A woman traveling in a commuter bus | Source: Pexels

A woman traveling in a commuter bus | Source: Pexels

The bus was busy, but not crazy. It had enough space to not feel like a packed sardine. I was zoning out to a podcast, totally lost in it until a tap on my shoulder brought me back to the real world.

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"Do you not think you should give up your seat?" a woman asked, a bit too sharply. I looked up, puzzled, half-expecting to see someone who obviously needed the seat more than me. But no, it was just her, standing there with an expectant look.

A woman standing in a bus | Source: Pexels

A woman standing in a bus | Source: Pexels

"Err..." was all I got out before she cut in with a sharp "Well!?" My dislike for confrontation kicked in. "Oh, okay then," I muttered, slowly pulling out my cane, hoping she'd see it and maybe change her mind.

But no, she didn't budge. Even seeing the cane didn't spark any recognition or regret. I stood up, each movement shooting a reminder of pain through my hip, and she took the seat like nothing was amiss. I stood there, leaning on the pole, silently hoping someone might notice and offer me a seat. Sadly, it didn't happen. Pride and pain kept me from asking outright.

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A red double-decker bus passing by a street in the city | Source: Pexels

A red double-decker bus passing by a street in the city | Source: Pexels

Then, out of nowhere, the bus jolted hard. The driver had to slam on the brakes for some jaywalker, and I lost my grip. The pain was instant, my leg gave out, and down I went, sliding along the bus floor.

The bus driver was right there, asking, "Are you alright? Did you hit your head? Where's the pain?" As I lay there, a rush of self-critical thoughts flooded in — why couldn't I just hold on tighter?

A close-up shot of a bus driver holding a steering wheel | Source: Pixabay

A close-up shot of a bus driver holding a steering wheel | Source: Pixabay

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I mumbled some apologies and tried to wave off the concern, even though I was clearly not okay. The driver helped me up, giving me a pointed look toward the reserved seats. The woman who had taken my seat looked downright embarrassed now, and without a word, she got up and moved away.

The rest of that ride was a blur. I spent it trying not to focus on the pain, reflecting on what had just happened. That night, as I lay in bed, it all replayed in my mind — a stark reminder of the daily hurdles those with hidden disabilities face.

People inside a bus | Source: Pexels

People inside a bus | Source: Pexels

So here's a little plea to anyone who might find themselves in a similar situation: if you see something like this, offering your seat is more than just being polite. It's a real help to those of us who struggle silently.

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It's tough to ask, especially when our issues aren't visible. A simple act of kindness, like offering a seat, can save someone a night of pain. It might seem small, but believe me, it means the world.

Seats in a bus | Source: Pexels

Seats in a bus | Source: Pexels

If these stories tugged at your heartstrings, here's another one you might like:

Man Brazenly Takes My Reserved Train Seat, but I Claim My Revenge

In a particularly crowded train from Edinburgh to London, one passenger found themselves in a rather frustrating predicament that would soon escalate into a clever act of defiance. This Reddit story begins with a traveler who had meticulously booked a window seat with a table for their journey, anticipating a comfortable ride.

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A green and yellow commuter train | Source: Pixabay

A green and yellow commuter train | Source: Pixabay

Upon boarding, however, they were met with an unexpected and unsettling sight: four individuals had overtaken their reserved spot, including the window seat that was rightfully theirs. Not knowing what to do, the passenger asked the four people to move out of their spot.

A window seat with a table on a train | Source: Shutterstock

A window seat with a table on a train | Source: Shutterstock

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The central figure of this story, a man seated in the passenger's booked location, blatantly refused to vacate the spot despite being confronted. With the train brimming with passengers and no available seats in sight, the situation seemed dire.

The man, surrounded by his companions, argued the packed condition of the train as a reason for his refusal to move, leaving the rightful seat holder frustrated.

A man sitting in a window seat on a train | Source: Shutterstock

A man sitting in a window seat on a train | Source: Shutterstock

The aggrieved passenger sought assistance from the ticket collector, hoping for a resolution. Yet, when the ticket collector approached the defiant man, requesting he relocate, the man's refusal persisted.

Astonishingly to the passenger, the ticket collector admitted to having no authority to enforce the move, suggesting instead that the passenger find another seat, despite the evident lack of availability.

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A ticket collector collecting tickets on a train | Source: Shutterstock

A ticket collector collecting tickets on a train | Source: Shutterstock

The passenger was shocked by this and asked what else could be done. The ticket collector informed the passenger that the only people who could forcibly remove the passengers were the police. However, the ticket collector assured the passenger that the police would not turn up for a situation like this.

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A police officer | Source: Pixabay

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When the passenger was faced with the prospect of standing all the way to London, they decided to assert their own form of justice. Informing the ticket collector of their intention to occupy a seat in first class, they were met with the reminder that such a move was not permitted.

The passenger retorted that the ticket collector could call the police, ironically noting that the authorities were unlikely to respond to such a call, echoing their earlier inaction.

An empty first-class train cabin | Source: Shutterstock

An empty first-class train cabin | Source: Shutterstock

The story, shared on Reddit, elicited a wide range of reactions, particularly focusing on the apparent lack of authority held by train staff in enforcing seating arrangements. Many expressed disbelief that such basic rules could not be enforced without police intervention, questioning the effectiveness of the current system.

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Blue-colored seats in a train | Source: Pixabay

Blue-colored seats in a train | Source: Pixabay

Comments from individuals with experience in similar service roles shared their own stories of enforcing rules and dealing with rule-breakers. From train conductors in Belfast to Dublin ensuring compliance with the threat of police waiting at stops and not allowing the train to move until the situation was resolved, to movie theatre managers cleverly using public pressure to correct seating disputes.

A man sitting in a first-class train cabin | Source: Shutterstock

A man sitting in a first-class train cabin | Source: Shutterstock

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One commenter highlighted the inconsistency in handling such situations, recalling personal experiences of being upgraded to first class when faced with a similar dilemma on the same route. This contrasted sharply with the passenger's outcome, pointing to a lack of uniformity in how passengers are treated in these scenarios.

A woman standing beside a red train | Source: Pexels

A woman standing beside a red train | Source: Pexels

The discussion also veered into the territory of moral and social responsibility, with many condemning the actions of the person who took the reserved seat, calling for immediate karma for such inconsiderate behavior. The story resonated with frequent travelers who had encountered similar situations and hoped more firm solutions would be found in the future.

A train seat with a sign that reads "First Class" | Source: Shutterstock

A train seat with a sign that reads "First Class" | Source: Shutterstock

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Amidst the shared tales and opinions, a critical point emerged regarding the potential repercussions of taking matters into one's own hands, as the original passenger had done.

While some applauded the boldness of moving to first class, others cautioned about the legal and financial risks involved, highlighting the complex dynamics of asserting one's rights in public spaces.

Seats in a train | Source: Flickr

Seats in a train | Source: Flickr

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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