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I Found Out about the Birth of My Son from a Facebook Post – Is the Lesson I Taught My Wife Justified?

Gaone Pule
Jun 03, 2024
12:00 P.M.

I discovered my son's birth through a Facebook post. What came next shattered my world and forced me to teach my wife a lesson she would never forget.

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It’s hard to believe this is my reality. But here I am. My wife, Julia, and I had wanted kids for years. So, when she finally got pregnant last year, we were thrilled.

I wanted to be the best husband and future father I could. Her father had never been involved in her life, and my brother isn't the most involved dad.

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I saw too many problems up close when husbands were absent, and I was determined not to make the same mistakes. However, just a few weeks into her pregnancy, everything started going downhill.

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Julia stopped wanting sex. "I just don't feel like it, Mason. It's too much right now," she would say. I understood it was due to hormones and stress, so I respected her wishes. But then she didn't want any physical interaction. No cuddling, no kissing. On top of that, she became increasingly distant.

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Her eating habits constantly changed. One evening, Julia demanded, "Mason, I need pickles and ice cream right now."

"Sure thing, honey," I replied, hurrying to the store. When I returned, she snapped, "I don't want this! I want sushi!"

"Julia, you asked for this just an hour ago," I said, confused.

"I don't care! Just get me sushi," she screamed. I attributed this to hormonal issues and dealt with it.

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A pregnant woman touching her belly while looking at husband | Source: Pexels

She never let me go to any appointments or groups she attended. "It's just easier if I go alone," she insisted. "I don’t want you hovering over me."

"But I want to be involved, Julia," I protested.

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"I said no, Mason!" she snapped. She spent more time away from home, became cold and bitter, and was constantly angry at me. This went on for months.

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An angry man sitting by the table while looking at a woman | Source: Pexels

One night, I came home exhausted. "Julia, I made dinner," I called out.

"I'm not eating that," she said, eyeing the food with disdain.

"But I spent hours making it," I said, frustrated.

"Do you ever think about what I want?" she shouted. "You never listen!" Then, she slapped me. I was stunned to the point of silence.

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She stopped doing anything around the house about a month into the pregnancy. Sure, moving around is hard when pregnant, but she wouldn't even help out with laundry. By the fifth week, I was doing everything. My work was also our primary source of income. I was barely sleeping, and running on fumes.

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A young man in sleepwear | Source: Pexels

She made me sleep in the guest room and always tried to pick fights. "Why don't you just leave if you can't handle this?" she would taunt. I never even raised my voice.

I constantly reminded myself this wasn't her and it would all be worth it. She didn't want me to make any decisions regarding the baby. No name choices, no work on the nursery, nothing.

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One month before she delivered, Julia yelled at me about how useless I was. "I'm going to stay with my mother. Don't bother calling," she declared. She refused to let me get her anything, threatened to divorce me, and even threatened a restraining order if I called her.

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A couple of weeks ago, I found out about the birth of my son, Jason, from a Facebook post. Julia posted it with her mother and some family. It broke me. When I tried to visit them at the hospital, security kicked me out.

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After finding out about Jason's birth, I started doubting if Jason was mine. I wanted a paternity test, but Julia didn’t answer my calls. I was heartbroken. Two weeks later, Julia's brother picked up the phone.

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"Mason, you need to know the truth," he said. "Julia had an affair with a coworker. She believed the baby was his."

I was stunned. "What? How could she do this to me?"

"She didn’t know how to tell you. Her coworker promised to be with her, but he left when he found out the baby wasn't his," her brother explained. "I thought you should know."

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When I found out about Julia's betrayal, I was furious. With the help of my lawyer, I demanded a paternity test. When it was confirmed that I was indeed the father, I was finally able to hold my son for the first time when he was almost a month old.

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A newborn baby held by a happy father | Source: Pexels

I then taught Julia a lesson. We had a prenup, and I owned our marital home. I filed for divorce and was confident that I would win. I also contacted Julia's job and revealed her relationship with the coworker. Her company had strict rules and fired both Julia and the coworker.

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I filed for full custody of Jason, claiming Julia wasn't stable enough to provide for him. Julia begged me to forgive her, but I didn't. She had no option left but to move in with her mother.

Julia's life changed drastically after moving in with her mother. The relationship between Julia and her mother became strained. "How could you let this happen, Julia?" her mother would often ask, frustration clear in her voice.

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Two women arguing | Source: Pexels

"I made a mistake, Mom. I didn't know it would turn out like this," Julia would reply, her eyes welling up with tears.

Her mother sighed, "Losing your job was one thing, but your actions have consequences. Look at where we are now."

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Julia struggled with the reality of her situation. Every day was a reminder of her fall from grace. Without a job, she had no financial independence.

Her mother’s constant lectures didn’t help. "I can't believe you jeopardized everything for a fling," her mother said one evening, shaking her head in disbelief.

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"Mom, I'm trying to make things right," Julia insisted.

"Trying isn't enough, Julia. You need to face the reality that you've hurt a lot of people," her mother retorted.

Their conversations were filled with tension and regret. Julia felt trapped and isolated. Her mother’s disappointment weighed heavily on her, making her realize the full impact of her decisions. Every day, she faced the reality of her actions and the life she had lost.

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A woman covering her face with her head down | Source: Pexels

After hearing me out in court and learning my story, the judge granted me full custody, especially since Julia didn't protest. I decided to move on with my life and become the best father I could be. I allowed Julia to see Jason according to the court arrangements.

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Was I justified in the lesson I taught my ex-wife?

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My Mom's Nagging Drove My Pregnant Wife Away, So I Taught Her a 'Dirty' Lesson She'll Never Forget

My mother has always been overbearing and I've had to live with that. However, things escalated once she started acting like that towards my pregnant wife.

On the other hand, my spouse is an incredible woman who is handling her pregnancy with grace and ease. Yet my mother's meddling regarding household chores and constant critique have sent her over the edge.

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At this point, my wife has reached a breaking point. Initially, she did not pay any mind to my mother's remarks and observations and used to brush them off.

Now those comments have turned into something else as she constantly nitpicked and nagged my wife beyond measure. She gave her unsolicited advice on everything she did and started telling the mother of my future child how she should do things around the house.

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As my wife's pregnancy progressed, things became even more problematic. My mom's judgments turned into constant criticism and made our living environment unbearable.

One day, she criticized the way my wife was knitting a baby blanket. My partner's face turned red and stopped what she was doing. Things went downhill from there.

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A woman knitting | Source: Pexels

It was frustrating to see my wife going through all of that. The final straw for me was what happened one evening when my partner cooked a family dinner and decided to do the dishes.

Once again, my mother decided to interfere leaving my wife flushed with frustration. My spouse attempted to plead with her to let her be but she did not budge.

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That is when I stepped in to defend my love. Later on in our bedroom, she broke down crying from all the pressure my mother put on her and decided she would go and be with her mom for a while.

I supported her and while she was away, it occurred to me just how much her absence made me feel, empty. From that point, I thought of how to keep my mother in check by teaching her a lesson in the most exhausting way.

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided "as is," and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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