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I Punished My Daughter After Her Gift Made My Wife Cry — Is My Decision Justified?

Prenesa Naidoo
Oct 23, 2024
10:14 A.M.

When Daniel's wife hands him a small box at Christmas dinner, he sees it's a cruel Christmas present from his daughter, Rachel. While Amelia is her stepmother, Rachel has been nothing but horrible to her, ignoring her past. Daniel has no choice but to teach her a lesson. But does he go too far?

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I knew something was off the moment I glanced at my wife during dinner. She was quiet, too quiet, and when I asked her if everything was okay, she just gave me a tight smile and shook her head.

But I could tell.

An upset woman sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

An upset woman sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

Something was eating away at her, and she was trying not to reveal it while we had guests sitting at the table with us.

"Come on, Amelia," I said. "Tell me, what's wrong?"

She finally cracked after the third time I asked. She pushed a small box across the table.

"This was your daughter's gift to me, Daniel," she said.

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A box on a table | Source: Midjourney

A box on a table | Source: Midjourney

I opened the box, confused.

At first, I just stared at it, trying to wrap my head around what I was looking at. Then the meaning hit me like a punch to the gut.

Amelia had spent the past two years fighting through breast cancer. The woman had undergone brutal treatment to still be here with us and she was now sitting at the dinner table on Christmas Day, blindsided by a teenage girl's cruelty.

She didn't say anything else. She just got up and walked into the kitchen. I heard her start to cry, and that's when my rage kicked in.

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A woman standing away from a dinner table | Source: Midjourney

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I stood up so quickly that the chair nearly tipped over.

"Rachel!" I barked from across the table.

My 16-year-old daughter blinked, all wide-eyed innocence on her face.

"What, Dad?" she asked.

I stormed over to her side of the dining table, which was covered in the Christmas spread that Amelia had been working on since dawn.

A teenage girl sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

A teenage girl sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

"What the hell were you thinking giving her this?" I shouted.

I held the box up like it was evidence at a crime scene.

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Rachel folded her arms, rolling her eyes like I was the one being unreasonable.

"It was just a gift. God, she's so sensitive, Dad. I mean, really."

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A close up of an angry man | Source: Midjourney

"You think this is funny, Rachel? Seriously?" I asked, my voice low.

She shrugged and put a forkful of turkey into her mouth.

"She needs to chill. It's just a bra."

I couldn't believe what I was hearing. My wife, who'd welcomed Rachel into our home with open arms despite the cold shoulder she'd received for years, had spent days making Christmas special, only to get slapped in the face with this.

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An undergarment in a box | Source: Midjourney

An undergarment in a box | Source: Midjourney

Amelia had spent thousands of dollars on Rachel's Christmas presents, getting her the makeup kit she had been hinting about for months, the designer handbag she wanted, and the pair of Doc Martens with the sunflowers.

And for what?

To be treated like this?

"You did this on purpose," I said, shaking the box at her. "You thought it would be funny to mock her. After everything she's been through, this is an entirely new low, even for you."

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Christmas presents next to a tree | Source: Midjourney

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Rachel scoffed.

"It's not such a big deal," she said.

"Yes, it is," I glared, fists clenched at my side. "And you know it."

When Rachel realized that I wasn't letting this slide, her attitude shifted. She turned defensive, making herself the victim.

"It's not my fault she's so uptight. Everyone acts like she's fragile or something, Dad. She was sick, but she's not sick now. She's fine now."

An upset girl sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

An upset girl sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

Those words were the final straw. I could feel something snap inside me. It was an overwhelming fury I couldn't hold back anymore.

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"You're cleaning up everything after our guests leave. All the decorations, the dishes, the trash. Everything! Since you think being cruel is so funny, you can spend the rest of your Christmas cleaning."

"What?!" Rachel shrieked, her face twisting in disbelief. "You can't make me do all that! I'll just leave. I'll phone Mom or Cody!"

Dirty dishes on a dining table | Source: Midjourney

Dirty dishes on a dining table | Source: Midjourney

"You will do it, Rachel," I said. "And you won't be leaving until it's done. Don't try and contest it."

Her phone was already in her hand, texting her stepbrother to come pick her up. She thought she could outsmart me? She had no idea how far I was willing to go this time.

I know it seems like I'm being a harsh father. And to an extent, I agree. But Amelia had been through hell and back during her surgery and recovery. My wife had fought tooth and nail to make it to the other side.

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And now she was here, in remission and finally back to herself, and Rachel decided to pull this stunt?

A teenage girl using her phone | Source: Midjourney

A teenage girl using her phone | Source: Midjourney

It was ridiculous. And so disappointing. I couldn't believe that my daughter had turned into someone I couldn't recognize anymore.

It made me sick.

Rachel had been the sweetest child until her mother, Celine, and I divorced. But we had divorced on good terms, we just needed to go our own ways because we weren't as compatible anymore.

Celine even cared for Amelia. When Amelia was fresh out of surgery, it was Celine who came over every few days to help me with laundry and cooking.

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A woman doing laundry | Source: Midjourney

So, what was Rachel's problem?

When her stepbrother, Cody, showed up, I met him at the door.

"She's not going anywhere, Cody," I said firmly. "But you're more than welcome to come in and have some dessert."

He raised his hands like I was some kind of lunatic.

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A teenager standing at the doorway | Source: Midjourney

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"Alright, man, I don't want any trouble," he said. "And it's all good. I'll leave. I'm going to meet some friends."

"There won't be any trouble, Cody," I said. "Go on, I'll bring Rachel home later."

I shut the door and turned to Rachel, my eyebrow raised.

Rachel lost it.

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An angry teenage girl | Source: Midjourney

She screamed at me, tears welling up in her eyes.

"This is so unfair! You're abusive, Daniel," she said, using my name. "Mom's going to hear about this!"

I stood firm, unmoved by this tantrum.

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"Go ahead. Call your mother. Tell her what you've done. But you're not leaving until every decoration is packed away, and every dish is clean."

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A close up of a man | Source: Midjourney

For four hours, Rachel worked angrily through her tears, grumbling the entire time.

At one point, Amelia came to me and pulled me aside, her face filled with guilt.

"Maybe this is too much," she whispered. "Despite everything, she's just a kid, honey."

"She's old enough to know better," I said flatly. "You've been nothing but kind to her, and this is how she repays you? No. She needs to understand there are consequences for being cruel."

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A close up of a woman | Source: Midjourney

My wife didn't say anything after that, but I could see it in her eyes. She hated being the reason for the punishment, even though she hadn't done anything wrong.

By the time Rachel was finished, it was well past midnight. The house was spotless, but the tension was thick enough to choke on. Rachel grabbed her coat without saying a word, stormed out of the house, and slammed the door behind her.

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An upset teenage girl | Source: Midjourney

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Not ten minutes later, I was pouring myself a whiskey when my phone rang. It was my ex.

"Are you out of your mind?" she shouted before I even said hello.

"Making her clean the whole house? On Christmas? What is wrong with you?"

I pinched the bridge of my nose.

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A glass of whiskey | Source: Midjourney

"She gave Amelia a bra, knowing full well what that would mean to her, Celine. You really think she shouldn't be held accountable? You really think she doesn't deserve to be punished?"

"She's sixteen, Daniel!" she huffed. "Kids make stupid jokes. It's not that serious!"

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"Not that serious?" I snapped. "Celine, are you even listening to yourself? If you can't see how wrong that is, then that's on you. But I'm not raising her thinking it's okay to hurt people and just walking away without any consequences."

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A woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

There was a long silence on the other end of the phone.

"You're being way too hard on her, Dan," she said finally and hung up.

I put my phone down and sighed, feeling the weight of the day on my shoulders. I walked into the kitchen and found Amelia sitting quietly at the kitchen island, her eyes red from crying.

"Maybe I went too far," I said, more to myself than to her.

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A woman sitting at a kitchen island | Source: Midjourney

She gave me a sad smile.

"You did what you thought was right."

I leaned against the counter, rubbing my face with both hands.

"I just can't believe she did that," I said. "How could she be so heartless?"

"She's a teenager," Amelia said softly. "They don't always think about how their actions affect others."

"Darling, there's no excuse," I said. "Not for this. Not after everything you've been through."

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A man leaning against a counter | Source: Midjourney

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Two weeks later, I met Rachel at a coffee shop. I had spent the past few days wrapped up in my emotions. I knew that my actions were justified, but at the same time, I wanted to make sure that Rachel was okay.

"Dad," she said coldly as she sat down across from me. "Why are we here?"

"I wanted to talk to you," I said. "But let's order first."

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The interior of a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

Rachel looked at me, not moving for a moment. But then she picked up the menu and searched through it.

"I'll have the waffles and a coffee," she said.

We sat in silence until the waitress came and took our orders.

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"Look," I said. "I need you to understand why I reacted that way over Christmas."

A man sitting at a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

A man sitting at a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

"Go ahead," she said.

"When Amelia got sick, it was really bad, Rachel. As much as she went for the surgery and had chemo, there were days when she wasn't okay at all. She wanted to give up. She used to make dark jokes about taking all her painkillers. I was scared all the time. I was terrified of losing her."

"What? It was that bad?" Rachel asked, her eyes wide.

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A sick woman | Source: Midjourney

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I nodded. "Yes," I said. "It was the worst time of our lives. I mean, we were only married a year then. Amelia and I wanted to have another baby together. But then she got sick, and things went downhill really quickly."

The waitress brought our food, and we sat in silence.

"I didn't want to hurt you, sweetheart," I said. "But your Christmas joke was so cold and callous and... it triggered me."

Waffles and ice cream at a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

Waffles and ice cream at a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

"I'm so sorry, Dad," she said, her face crumpling. "I didn't know any of this."

"Going forward, you have to do better, Rachel."

She nodded and sipped her coffee.

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A teenage girl sitting in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

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