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My Parents Are Constantly Belittling My Career While I Pay All Their Bills – This Time Was the Last Straw

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Jun 19, 2024
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Harper, a digital marketing consultant, financially supports her dismissive retired parents. However, an uncomfortable Thanksgiving dinner with her boss leads Harper to teach them a lesson about respect and the real value of her work.

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My name is Harper, and I'm a digital marketing consultant. At 30, I've built a career I'm proud of, but my parents, Tom and Linda, don't see it that way. Despite my success, they've never really taken what I do seriously. They're both retired and due to some poor investments, they lost their retirement savings. Now, I cover all their bills.

Harper | Source: Midjourney

Harper | Source: Midjourney

Every conversation with them is the same. They ask when I'll get a "real job," comparing me to my cousin Rachel, a lawyer. They don't understand the digital world, dismissing it as playing on the internet.

It hurts, knowing I work hard and support them, yet they don't value my profession. But I've always tried to keep the peace, respecting them as my parents and caring for their well-being, even if it means swallowing their hurtful words.

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Tom and Linda | Source: Midjourney

Tom and Linda | Source: Midjourney

A week before Thanksgiving, I called my parents to sort out the final details of their visit. As I spoke about their flight details, Dad's voice cut through, "So, Harper, still making money by just clicking around on that computer of yours?" His tone was light, but the jab stung. I sighed, forcing a chuckle, trying to keep the conversation light.

"Actually, Dad, it's a bit more complex than that. I manage major marketing campaigns online. It's quite strategic," I tried to explain, but I could almost hear his eyes rolling over the phone.

Harper talks to her parents | Source: Midjourney

Harper talks to her parents | Source: Midjourney

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"Yeah, yeah," Mom chimed in, her voice laced with skepticism. "But when are you going to settle into a real job? Like Rachel, maybe? Something stable and respectable?" Her words were a familiar refrain, but they still hurt. Every. Single. Time.

Changing the subject, I mentioned that I had invited my boss, Claire, to join us for Thanksgiving this year. Claire was a big deal in our industry, and she had always supported my career growth. "It’s important to me that you both meet her," I said, my voice firmer now. "She's been a great mentor and advocate for me at work."

Linda talks to Harper | Source: Midjourney

Linda talks to Harper | Source: Midjourney

There was a pause on the line. I took a deep breath and continued, "I need this Thanksgiving to go smoothly, okay? It's crucial that you both show some respect for my job when she's here. Please, just no jokes about 'playing on the internet' this time."

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Mom’s tone softened a bit. "Of course, dear. We promise, no making fun. We’ll behave," she assured me. I wanted to believe her. I really did. The thought of merging my two worlds, personal and professional, at Thanksgiving was nerve-wracking but also exciting.

Maybe, just maybe, seeing Claire in action would help them understand the real impact and importance of what I do. I hung up the phone, hopeful but anxious about how it would all unfold.

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Thanksgiving table | Source: Midjourney

Thanksgiving day arrived, and my house was bustling with the comforting scents of roasted turkey and cinnamon-spiced pies. The table was set elegantly with a fall-themed centerpiece, surrounded by warm, inviting lights. Claire arrived on time, carrying a fine bottle of wine, and I introduced her to my parents with a hopeful smile.

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Dinner started with light chatter about the weather and Claire’s journey to our city. Mom shared stories of my childhood with a touch of fondness that only a mother can. It was going well, and I started to relax a bit, thinking maybe this time would be different.

Claire and Harper | Source: Midjourney

Claire and Harper | Source: Midjourney

As the main course was served, Claire, curious about my work, turned the conversation to my latest project. "Harper was just telling me about a major campaign she’s been working on. Sounds like a big deal in the digital marketing world," Claire mentioned, passing me an encouraging look.

I nodded, grateful for the opening. "Yes, it was quite a comprehensive project. We targeted several platforms and..." I began, eager to explain the strategic complexities.

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But Dad interrupted with a booming laugh. "So, you spent months playing on social media all day?" His voice was loud enough that even Claire turned to look at him, a flicker of surprise crossing her face.

Tom laughing at his daughter | Source: Midjourney

Tom laughing at his daughter | Source: Midjourney

Mom joined in, not missing a beat. "Imagine getting paid to waste time online!" She laughed, glancing at Claire for approval.

Then, Dad turned to Claire, still grinning. "I even posted a picture on Facebook today! Maybe you should pay me more than she’s earning?" He chuckled, pulling out his phone to show a thumbs-up photo with Mom. The caption read, "Spending holidays at our influencer daughter's place."

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The Facebook photo | Source: Midjourney

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The laughter from my parents felt sharp, cutting through the festive air. Claire’s smile faded, replaced by a look of discomfort. I felt my cheeks burn with embarrassment, and my earlier hopes for a respectful evening dashed. The joy of the holiday was overshadowed by a familiar feeling of humiliation, magnified under Claire’s gaze.

As soon as Claire left, I excused myself and headed to my home office, closing the door behind me. Sitting in the quiet, I felt a mix of anger and sadness wash over me.

My parents had not only embarrassed me, but they had also disrespected Claire, a person I admired and valued professionally. Something inside me clicked; enough was enough. I had to make them understand the seriousness of my career and their lack of support.

Harper formulates a plan | Source: Midjourney

Harper formulates a plan | Source: Midjourney

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It was then that an idea formed. I decided to send them a fake law school acceptance letter. If they so admired Rachel for her traditional career as a lawyer, perhaps this would finally earn me their respect — or at least show them the consequences of their attitudes.

I crafted the letter carefully, making it look official, and emailed it to them with a simple message: "Big news! More details to follow."

The phone rang almost immediately. "Harper, what is this? Law school? But why?" Mom's voice was a cocktail of confusion and shock.

Harper calls up her parents | Source: Midjourney

Harper calls up her parents | Source: Midjourney

"Yes, I've been thinking about it for a while now," I lied smoothly. "Considering how often you both stress the importance of a 'real' job, I decided maybe it's time for a change. Law school is a big commitment, though, and I'll need to focus on my studies, which means I can't work. I'll need financial help—probably you'll have to sell the house to support my tuition."

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There was a stunned silence on the other end before Dad finally spoke, his voice unsteady. "Give us a couple of days to think this over, okay?"

When they called back a few days later, their tone had completely changed. "We've been thinking a lot," Dad started, "and maybe we haven't been fair to you. Your job... it's more important than we realized."

Tom talks to Harper | Source: Midjourney

Tom talks to Harper | Source: Midjourney

I let them stew a little longer before revealing the truth. "There's no law school. I'm not changing my career. I just needed you to understand something about respect and consequences."

Following that conversation, I decided to set new financial boundaries. "I’ll continue to support you, but just the necessities. It's time we all appreciated the value of what we have and what we do."

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Hopeful Harper | Source: Midjourney

This shift marked a turning point in our relationship. It wasn’t just about money or careers anymore. It was about respect and understanding. They started to take an interest in my work, asking genuine questions and even sharing my projects on their social media to show their support.

Our interactions became more cautious but also more sincere. They never mocked my career again, having learned that respect is not just given when it's convenient but earned by understanding and appreciating each other’s contributions, no matter the field.

I Overheard My Parents Whispering about Breaking Me Up with My Girlfriend — We Decided to Outplay Them

On a seemingly ordinary morning, Daniel uncovers his parents' covert plan to pay off his girlfriend, Lily, and end their relationship. Faced with betrayal and armed with love, Daniel and Lily orchestrate a bold maneuver that could either mend familial ties or sever them forever.

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Hey everyone, it's Daniel. I've got this crazy situation that unfolded just this morning, and I feel I must share it.

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You see, I've been dating Lily, the absolute love of my life, for about a year now. She's incredible, honestly, and I finally decided it was time she met my folks.

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Now, my parents live overseas, so we don't see each other that often. This was the first time they were visiting since Lily and I started dating, and I invited them over for breakfast at my place.

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I was pretty excited about the whole thing, imagining how it would go down, you know? Big smiles, warm welcomes—the works.

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A man introducing his girlfriend to his parents | Source: Shutterstock

The morning started pretty smoothly. Coffee brewed, pancakes sizzled on the griddle, and the aroma of bacon filled the air. It felt like one of those perfect scenes straight out of a feel-good movie.

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Lily was her usual charming self, cracking jokes and filling the room with her laughter. But, as the morning progressed, I noticed something off with my parents.

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A family dining in their backyard | Source: Pexels

They would interrupt Lily mid-sentence, exchange knowing looks, and annoyingly sniff dismissively whenever she mentioned her job or family. It was subtle, but their lack of enthusiasm hit me hard.

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But here's the kicker. After breakfast, I excused myself to grab some extra napkins from downstairs. As I was coming back up, I overheard something that stopped me cold. Continue reading here.

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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