A Soldier and Mom of Two Among US Troops Killed in Iran – Five Other Men Also Identified

The deaths of a female soldier and five other U.S. service members came a day after the United States and Israel launched their military campaign targeting Iran.

Sergeant First Class Nicole Amor was killed when a drone struck a command center in Kuwait. The mother of two was only days away from returning home to her husband, Joey Amor, and their children. Instead, her family is now grieving her loss.

One of the First Casualties of a Rapidly Escalating Conflict

Nicole was among four U.S. soldiers killed in the Iran conflict on Sunday, March 1. The Pentagon released their names on Tuesday, March 3. She served in the Army Reserve in a logistics role, helping supply troops with food, equipment, and other essential items.

Speaking from their home in White Bear Lake, Minnesota, on March 3, Joey Amor said, "She was almost home. You don't go to Kuwait thinking something's going to happen, and for her to be one of the first – it hurts."

After the U.S. and Israel carried out their military move against Iran, the country responded with attacks. Iran launched missiles and drones toward Israel and several Gulf Arab nations that host American forces. Kuwait was among the places targeted, and the strike there killed Nicole and the other service members.

Those who died also included Captain Cody Khork and Sergeant Declan Coady, who was promoted from specialist after his death. MajorJeffrey R. O'Brien and Chief Warrant Officer 3 Robert M. Marzan are also reportedly among those who perished in the attack.

All of the soldiers were assigned to the 103rd Sustainment Command, a unit responsible for providing food, fuel, water, ammunition, and transportation equipment to support military operations.

Army Secretary Daniel Driscoll said, "These men and women all bravely volunteered to defend our country, and their sacrifice will never be forgotten." President Donald Trump also commented on the losses, "Sadly, there will likely be more before it ends. That's the way it is."

A Family's Final Hours Before the Deadly Strike

Outside her military service, Nicole enjoyed spending time in her garden. She liked making salsa using peppers and tomatoes she grew there, often preparing it with her son, who is a high school senior. The 39-year-old also spent time rollerblading and riding bicycles with her fourth-grade daughter.

A week before the drone strike, Nicole had been moved away from the base to a building made from shipping containers that did not have defensive protection, Joey explained.

"They were dispersing because they were in fear that the base they were on was going to get attacked, and they felt it was safer in smaller groups in separate places," he shared.

He said their last conversation happened about two hours before the attack. Nicole had been working long shifts, and the two had been messaging about her tripping and falling the night before. "She just never responded in the morning," Joey said.

More loved ones have been deeply affected by this news. Here is a look at the lives, families, and achievements of the service members who were lost in these ongoing deadly attacks.

Sergeant First Class Nicole M. Amor

Sergeant Nicole had recently deployed to Kuwait after nearly 20 years in the military, with this likely to be her final tour, according to her brother, Derek Hoff. Before leaving in August, she appeared to be at a crossroads, balancing her military service with family responsibilities.

Her 18-year-old son was graduating from high school, and she wanted to be present for more of her nine-year-old daughter's childhood.

Her brother noted that she had been close to moving on to the next chapter of her life, potentially retiring to spend more time with her children. "She just missed them. It was a yearning for her kids," said Derek.

Nicole began her military career in 2005 when she joined the National Guard as an automated logistics specialist. She transferred to the Army Reserve a year later and later deployed to Iraq in 2019, followed by Kuwait, where her work focused on logistics.

"She knew what she signed up for, and she did it because she had a job and a duty," said 42-year-old Derek of Eau Claire, Wisconsin. Online, people have sent the family messages of support and sympathy.

One netizen shared a heartfelt prayer, "Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time." Another person reflected on the ultimate sacrifice, "So sad in the loss of your precious Nicole. The highest sacrifice she gave."

Someone else asked for divine comfort, praying that her husband, children, and entire family find solace during the long nights of grief and the strength to face the days ahead.

Sergeant Noah Tietjens

Sergeant Noah left behind his wife, Shelly, and their teenage son, Dylan. The family lived together in the Washington Terrace mobile home park in Bellevue, a suburb of Omaha, Nebraska.

The Tietjens family shared a strong bond through martial arts, frequently attending classes together at Martial Arts International in Bellevue. Noah had earned certification as an instructor and harbored dreams of one day opening his own studio.

He achieved black belts in both Philippine Combatives and Taekwondo. Noah was also a devoted father, always cheering on Dylan at his black belt ceremony. When Dylan received a special award, he asked his father to come onstage so he could dedicate the honor to him.

According to the Philippine Martial Arts Alliance, the 42-year-old dedicated his time to teaching, mentoring, and guiding others through the discipline and leadership values.

His commitment to honor, discipline, service, and helping others was evident both on the mat and in his military service. Julius Melegrito, the owner of Martial Arts International, also described Noah as calm, confident, and soft-spoken, with a natural presence that reassured everyone around him.

During the COVID-19 pandemic, Faith Melegrito, Julius's wife, noted that Noah was invaluable in helping the studio implement social distancing and keep students safe, demonstrating leadership beyond the mat.

"He has this commanding presence and friendly aura around him. Since then, whenever we would have events, or he would be at the school, I would always feel more calm when he’s around, because I knew he would look at what’s needed and he would take care of it," said Faith.

Nebraska officials recognized Noah's sacrifice and service. Governor Jim Pillen ordered flags to fly at half-staff in his honor, noting the profound commitment Noah showed in defending his country and the lasting impact he leaves on his family and community.

Captain A. Cody Khork

Captain Cody, a resident of Lakeland, Florida, began his military journey in 2009 when he enlisted as a multiple launch rocket system/fire direction specialist in the National Guard. His family said that from a young age, he felt a calling to serve his country.

Cody joined the Army Reserve and participated in Florida Southern College's Reserve Officers' Training Corps (ROTC) program. In 2014, Cody was commissioned as a military police officer in the Army Reserve.

Over the years, he deployed to several locations, including Saudi Arabia in 2018, Guantánamo Bay, Cuba, in 2021, and Poland in 2024. Throughout his career, he received numerous honors for his service, including the Meritorious Service Medal and the Army Commendation Medal, reflecting his dedication and achievements.

Cody was recognized by his family for his deep patriotism, sense of purpose, and commitment to serving something greater than himself. His life was defined by service, love for his country and family, and the example he set, leaving a lasting legacy in the lives of those he impacted.

His mother, Donna Burhans, father, James Khork, and stepmother, Stacey Khork, said in a statement, "That commitment helped shape the course of his life and reflected the deep sense of duty that was always at the core of who he was."

In addition to his military career, the 35-year-old had a strong interest in history and earned a degree in political science. Socially, his family recalled that he was "the life of the party." They added that Cody was charismatic and warm.

He was known for his infectious energy, generous nature, and deep concern for those who served alongside him, as well as for everyone who knew him personally. Cody shared a close friendship of more than 16 years with Abbas Jaffer.

Abbas described him as the best friend, brother, and confidant anyone could hope for. He noted the profound impact Cody had on the lives of those around him and the ultimate sacrifice he made while defending the country overseas.

Sergeant Declan Coady

Sergeant Declan grew up in Iowa and was a sophomore at Drake University in Des Moines at the time of his death. His family noted that he had been an Eagle Scout and a fencer, with a love for gaming and going to the gym.

His sister, Keira Coady, said Declan was known for being quiet at times. However, he spoke passionately about the subjects he cared most about, leaving a lasting impression on those who had the chance to engage with him.

Keira described him as highly intelligent and deeply devoted to his family, serving as a steady presence for his parents and three siblings. Declan was just 20 years old, approaching his 21st birthday in May, making his loss especially poignant.

"I still don't fully think it's real. I just remember all of our conversations about what he was going to do when he came back," Keira said. Declan enlisted in the Army Reserve in 2023 as an information technology specialist.

He trained in IT with the Army Reserves and simultaneously pursued a degree in cybersecurity at Drake University, taking online classes while deployed in Kuwait. Drake University described him as a well-loved and highly dedicated student, noting that he had an incredibly bright future ahead of him.

Declan had aspirations to become an officer and had been recognized for his service with the Army Service Ribbon, the National Defense Service Ribbon, and the Overseas Service Ribbon.

Major Jeffrey R. O'Brien

Major Jeffrey, an Army Reserve officer from Waukee, Iowa, was commissioned in the Army Reserve as a signal corps officer in 2012. He deployed to Kuwait in 2019.

Jeffrey was recognized throughout his military career with multiple awards, including the Army Achievement Medal, the Meritorious Unit Commendation, and the Army Superior Unit Award.

Chief Warrant Officer 3 Robert M. Marzan

Chief Warrant Officer 3 Robert M. Marzan, 54, from Sacramento, California, was present during the attack in Kuwait that claimed the lives of six service members. While he is believed to have been among those killed, official confirmation is pending from the medical examiner, according to the Department of Defense.

The military campaign is leaving a deep mark not only on the battlefield but also on families far from it, as loved ones around the world grapple with sudden loss and uncertainty.